When A Woman Is Checking You Out

Do You Know When A Woman Is Checking You Out?

By Joseph Matthews
Author, Art of Approaching

You want to hear something funny? Most guys have NO IDEA when a woman is into them.

Seriously. Unless she walks up to them, tears her clothes off, and screams "Take me now!" most men are completely oblivious to when a woman is sending out those "attraction signals."

Case in point...

QUESTION FROM A READER

Hi Joe,

I am enjoying your newsletters. I have a question for you.

I am 55 years old. I notice that when I am standing talking to somebody, no matter where I am at or who I am talking to, I always seem to catch some woman checking out my crotch.

Sometimes I will catch her doing this 3 or 4 times if I am there talking long enough.

Sometimes it is a woman that I know and sometimes they are complete strangers.

I have had a couple of times I have caught a women doing this, so I turned just so I could watch her out of the corner of my eye and she must have spent a minute or 2 checking out my crotch!

My question is: Is there a sure fire way to take it farther?

Some of them I would definitely like to make it with. What would you say when you catch a women doing that to you and you liked her looks?

I always get the quick "they look at my face then run their eyes down my body." I just smile at them until they look away.

If they smile back I say "Hi" to them, if they say hi back I ask them how they are doing. If I know them I might tease them or depending on what the circumstance is.

Please let me know your thoughts.

Steve

MY RESPONSE:

Okay Steve, there are only three logical explanations to this...

Your fly is always unzipped.

You consistently wear neon-colored pants with flashing arrows pointed at your pelvic region.

You are noticing massive attraction signals and NOT ACTING on them.

(My guess is, it's number 3!)

See, I can always tell when a girl is checking me out, and here's how...

PAY ATTENTION TO HER EYES.

His she looks at your face, then down to your crotch, then back up to your face, that's what I like to call:

MAJOR ATTRACTION SIGNAL!

If you think about it, that's what us guys do with women we like too. We'll run our eyes over their body to get an idea of whether we like the "full package."

Women are the same way, especially if you have the advantage of being good looking or physically attractive in some way.

When you see this "up and down" scan happen, you should know INSTANTLY that she's into you!

And if she can't take her eyes off your crotch, guess what? That's almost a SURE THING! (unless you suffer from points 1 or 2 above, then it's just casual interest =)

So here's what you do when you notice them...

YOU OPEN THEM!

That's right, just use one of my patented, tried and true openers to get her into a conversation.

Then, start flirting with her!

You already know she's interested, so express some interest in her. Once she catches on, she'll know its okay to take things further!

If you REALLY want to get down-and-dirty into how to meet and flirt with women, you got to check out my course The Art Of Approaching.

In it, you'll learn sure-fire ways to really get the most from any interaction with a woman.

You'll be amazed at the results.

Talk soon,
Joseph Matthews
Art of Approaching