How To Get Unstuck And Going Strong With Speed Seduction
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Ross Jeffries
Author, Speed Seduction
Many times, beginning students have said or written to me, "I'm just having trouble getting started with this stuff. It's not that I'm really shy or anything...it's just that this way of talking seems SO strange to me."
Now listen; I am very aware that a first introduction to Speed Seduction»® can seem overwhelming and also a little, well, kooky.
After all, if a guy walked up to you and talked to you the way I am teaching you to talk to women, you'd probably call the cops or punch him in the mouth. Perhaps if you were an extra
compassionate person, you'd refer him to a mental health clinic for counseling.
Look, I'm very, very aware that the ways I'm teaching you to communicate with women seem very strange. Further I'm here to tell you..
....THEY SHOULD SEEM STRANGE TO YOU!
Is this a contradiction?? How could something that could help you have success with women beyond your wildest fantasies .. something that could take that old, rusty stuck door of not getting anywhere or having to "settle" and...
...Make It Swing Wide Open With Excitement, Passion And The Connections With They Kind Of Women You've Always Wanted.
Well, here is the secret in a nut-shell: women think about and process language DIFFERENTLY.
We men tend to process words and language through the left brain. But scientific studies, using brain scans have shown that women process the same words and phrases using the left AND right brains; that the same language that evokes little or no emotional response from men, evokes massive emotional response from women.
This means that the language that seems funny, bizarre or off to you, will be processed by women in a way that opens the deep, emotional, suggestive structures of their minds.
Now, don't get me wrong. All humans, male or female, are subject to great emotional response, based on symbols. Just think of the strong emotions that rush through you when you are traveling in a foreign land and you see the American flag.(This could be good or bad, depending what country you are from-since my students come from all around the world, I have to be careful!)
Of when you hear your countries national anthem. Or when you see the sun finally come out on a clear day after a long bout of darkness and rain.
These symbols and events evoke emotion, strongly, in ALL humans. It is simply that women also happen to have strong responses to language, spoken and written, that we men simply
usually don't.
What does this really mean for you? That if you can push past your initial responses that this stuff may seem odd or weird and instead, understand HOW it works, go out and give it a try, then....
....The Results You Will See Will Astonish You!
A couple of quick metaphors to help you understand this. When you go fishing, if you were to go fishing, would you bait the hook with YOUR favorite snack foods because worms or crawdads would taste bad to you?
No. You would bait it with what the FISH bites on and desires.
Finally, supposing you were driving on a country road, late at night, and a UFO landed right in front of you. Out stepped an alien from a very advanced species. You knew that if you could
communicate with him, he would unveil incredible technology to you that could solve world hunger, bring unlimited wealth, riches, and happiness to the world, end disease, and make your own personal dreams come true and more. He could unlock the answer to any question, but..
He didn't speak a word of any language on earth!
Instead, you had to learn to speak to him in HIS language, something that seemed at first like gibberish, hard to pronounce, and not making any sense to you.
Would you refuse his offer of a device that would teach you, in a few weeks, to speak to him in his own tongue, just because it felt weird and made no sense to you?
Or would you take his language machine, learn to speak to him in a way that HE understood and responded to, and...
...COLLECT TREASURES AND TECHNOLOGY BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS?
Now look: women are NOT aliens. But sometimes, the way they process language, words and emotions can make us FEEL like they are from another planet. Speed Seduction»® will hand you that universal translator/language machine so you can take them on journeys OUT OF THIS WORLD!
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
Speed Seduction