Ross Jeffries The Ethics of Boyfriend Destroying

The Ethics of Boyfriend Destroying

by
Ross Jeffries
Author, Speed Seduction

Wow. I never imagined my newsletters on "boyfriend" destroying would evoke such a response.

Some of you guys were actually angry.

Here is an email I received on the subject

"Ross,

I for one do not appreciate this whole "boyfriend" destroying thing.

I have a girlfriend who I love very much(thanks to your teachings) and I wouldn't want anyone taking her away from me.

Think about what you are teaching and then think again.

Some of this stuff isn't right or ethical. Breaking relationships isn't right.

And you do not have my permission to use my name in this email

Mr. Anonymous"

Ok, Anon. Different strokes for different folks.

But here is a point to consider: while it is great you love your girlfriend (and I assume it is great she loves you), not every girl and guy are going to be in that situation.

It's just a sad fact that many women who SAY they have a boyfriend either are lying outright, responding out of auto-pilot, or they are stuck in relationships in which they are not happy.

The reality is, most very attractive women ARE probably going to be with someone.

If you wait until you find girls who are totally officially "single" you may be waiting a long time.

Personally, I find technology (and Speed Seduction^»® is an technology) to be morally neutral.

You can use fire to heat your camp at night. Or you can use it to burn down a building.

You can use a knife to stab an innocent person in the heart. Or you can use it to cut someone's bonds and set them free.

Speaking for myself alone, I believe that not caving in to a woman's first "knee-jerk" response is a good thing.

I'm creating a space for her to have a new choice, to respond with more freedom and act differently.

Listen: if she really, REALLY loves the guy, she will let you know and you aren't going to get anywhere anyway.

Let me make it clear: NOTHING works all the time.

And that is the way it is in the real world, and that's ok.

And if the women you meet tell you "I have a boyfriend" it's nice to know you know how to respond even if you choose not to.

Peace and piece

Ross Jeffries
Speed Seduction