Ross Jeffries The Power Of Negative

The Power Of Negative

by
Ross Jeffries
Author, Speed Seduction

Sometimes being "positive" is not the right way to be, when it comes to women.

Now, let me be clear about something-I'm not talking about your attitude.

I'm talking about your language.

You see, as I teach in the Home Study Course, one of the most powerful linguistic tools in existence that can totally blast through a woman's last minute resistance and "auto-pilot" objections is negation.

Negation simply involves using negatives like "shouldn't" 'mustn't" "don't" "can't" etc as ways to turn a woman's imagination and train of thought back in the direction you want it to go.

It's a very good way to turn a woman around WITHOUT arguing or trying to convince her.

Here, as an example, is an email I just got on the subject:

"Ross,

Something I saw in this movie Spanglish with Adam Sandler. Sandler is trying to sleep with this woman and she is putting up objection after objection. Finally, he says:

"We really shouldn't do something that will give us such unbelievable satisfaction and release."

How good is that line on so many different levels?!

The power of the negative is awesome. I am 2 for 2 with it so far. I firmly believe that without it, I would have been flying solo both nights in the end.

You're techniques are fantastic. I look at things in a whole new way: I almost feel I am the one turning down woman these days instead of the other way around.

If you use this please don't use my name/email address.

Thanks,
Name deleted on request"

Ok. Good example there, although he actually just used negation in the wrong way t the end and told me to "USE MY NAME/EMAIL ADDRESS".

In any event, negation works because the unconscious does not and cannot process a negative. Therefore, it ignores the "negative" and ACCEPTS THE COMMAND THAT FOLLOWS.

So, here is an example of how this would work.

Let's say you are making out with a hot woman. Suddenly she stops you and says, "This is moving too fast".

Using negation, you would say, "You're right. You shouldn't be enjoying the waves of pleasure as I kiss you right here(note to the reader: do what you are describing, as you are saying it).

"I shouldn't be reaching my hand under your blouse and you shouldn't FEEL YOURSELF GETTING EVEN MORE AROUSED".

Get the picture?

Overall, negation is a tool that fits into the broader principle of "pattern interrupts". When you take a person's fixed pattern of response or acting and surprise it with the unexpected(in the case of making out, women EXPECT men to either argue, get upset, stop completely or attack them!), then that person becomes very lead-able and very suggestible.

Ok. Having said all that, whatever you do, do NOT GO TO MY WEBSITE AND ORDER MY PRODUCTS:

And don't FIND YOURSELF COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE ABOUT MY WEBSITE!

Not wishing you peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Speed Seduction