Body Language
del.icio.us This PageKnowing how to use Your body language effectively is very crucial to your success, because communication on this level starts before You even start to talk to a girl. It is a very powerful tool, especially in seduction, because women are many times more aware of our body language than we are. They not only notice it more, but they understand it better. Your body tells her more things about You, than You will tell her on the first five dates –that’s why You need to know how You need to behave, to indicate to her that You are a strong Alpha Male.
- How should You walk? Notice, how film stars walk. They are RELAXED. Their moves are smooth and calm. Relax Your body, put your shoulders slightly back and walk with a sense of confidence. Hold your head up and don't just look at the ground when you walk.
You must behave in a very calm way. Your eyes should pay attention only to things that are really interesting. Bouncing with them on everything around indicates that You are nervous, so You shouldn’t do this. When someone calls Your name, react without hurry. Remember that Alpha Male's like You are always relaxed.
- 97% of women want from a guy that she meets for the first time, to have a BIG smile on his face. You must be smiling before You start talking to her (she may be observing You), and during the introduction of yourself. Do not do this all the time, because You can seem to be a psycho:)
Get rid off any behaviours that can show a woman that you aren't relaxed, such as raising your shoulders, wrinkling your forehead, fidgeting Your legs and hands or tightening your facial muscles.
When You are looking at a woman, and she is looking at You, NEVER EVER take Your eyes from hers first. If You do that, it will mean that You are not confident and You are lost. When You start talking with her, often look in a confident way in her eyes, but remember to take them off sometimes and look at something else - Remember You are not a psycho are You ? :)
When the conversation is going well, look in her eyes less often, act like the environment around You distracts You. Make jokes and have fun, like she is a good friend. From time to time look again very confidently in her eyes so she knows that You aren't afraid of her. That way, she won't be sure "if he likes me?" and she will start to chase you, because you are being challenging.
With proper body language move on to the next chapter ----> Conversation