Art of Seduction

CONVERSATION

One of the best possible approaches is by using your sense of humour. Simply tell her a joke and get her laughing. That kind of introducing Yourself has many advantages:

- Even if she is not in a good mood, You will change that attitude.
- You will show to her, that meeting new people is not a monotonous process for You.
- You'll show to her, that You are self confident (very important).
- You can tell right away if she has a nice personality or not. If not why should You care?

Almost every woman decides if she will sleep with You or not in the first few minutes of meeting You. That is why the first impression is so very important. Never look at her breasts - if she catches You at it- You are lost. Always ask for her name, but don't tell her Yours. If she does ask for Your name it means that she is interested. If not, leave her before she leaves You. .


Conversation

When You're already talking with her, the most important thing is to make the conversation interesting. An excellent idea is to "work" just like an echo. Listen carefully to what she is talking about, then comment on it and ask her more about it - let her talk. Such behaviour shows a woman that You're paying attention to what she is saying – they like it.

Talk with her only about positive topics. This is really important, because if You talk with her about sad things, her subconscious mind will connect sad feelings with You. It is not happening at sight, but it’s a good habit anyway, so talk with women mostly on positive topics (it is impossible to avoid sad topics sometimes, but then change the topic quickly). Below You are some suggestions for what to talk about:
• • Interesting stories from Your life – This should start her talking about interesting things from her life too, so the conversation should go smoothly.
• Highlights from the past few days of your life
• Your passions in life

The next powerful technique is to use in your conversation cocky and comedy together. For most men this doesn't seem logical, but remember, women don't think logical. This really is the only way to talk with the hottest sex bombs. Cocky alone shows insecurity, and comedy alone shows that you are a clown, but together it's like magic. When You combine these styles together You communicate to a woman that you are both intelligent and confident in yourself - a true Alpha Male. It's a new and fresh approach to her; she is used to being worshipped by men.


Openers

Below You can find a couple of examples of opening phrases. They are borrowed from a great book written by Joseph Matthews “Art of Approaching”. If You really want to become a great seducer You must have that book - it's not by accident many people call this book the ‘Bible of Seduction’. You can find our review of it in the E-books Review section.



Advice openers – Advice openers – when You use this opener, a woman will see You as an authority and she will give You lots of attention

Example: At a gas station
“Hey, you know, you should never let your gas gauge fall below ¼ of a tank. All sorts of dirt and grime accumulate at the bottom of your gas tank, and if you go past the ¼ mark, you are putting all that dirt and grime into your engine. It’ll save you lots of money in the long run on car repairs. Do you know a lot about cars?”

Compliment opener – one of the oldest openers in the world. If You use it correctly it will get a very good effect. Remember that women listen to thousands of compliments every day, that’s why You should give her a compliment about something unique.

Example: On the street.
“Hey, are you by any chance a dancer? Because you move with such grace and confidence, you have to be professionally trained. Who’s your teacher?”
If she says she’s not a dancer, follow up with:
“Well, I bet if we get you in a club that’s a different story.”



Joke opener – the most powerful, but the most difficult also.

Example: At party or club. Very effective on groups.
“Hey guys, what do gay cows eat?” (after they respond, twirl your finger in the air, and in your best gay voice, say) “Haaaaayyyyyy!”



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