Seduction
del.icio.us This PageThe male brain is different than a females brain. We decide if we like a girl or not mostly by looking at her (physical appearance), but they have quite a different judgment mechanism. A womans decisions rely on FEELINGS. Feelings are created in their minds mostly in three ways:
- Physical appearance (if You are ‘handsome’ a woman can feel that she likes You more than if You didn’t look so nice, but under the term ‘physical appearance’ I don’t mean what Your face looks like, or if You have big muscles – it's the way You dress that matters. Moreover You don’t need to wear expensive clothes – they must be simply clean and tidy. I don't think You would like to have a girlfriend who has dirty hair and dirty clothes – right?
Physical appearance is only about 20% of Your ‘overall score’ in the eyes of a woman so as You can see the next two factors will be more important. Remember that You must take care of how You look to women - clean clothes, clean body, some nice cologne – Yes I know that those are basics, but You would be surprised by how many guys don’t take the proper care about these things. I can personally guarantee to You, that even if You have the greatest conversation skills, if You stink they won’t go to bed with You. Personal hygiene is important. Carry around breath mints too.
• Body language. Your body language has a major influence on the first impression of You a woman has and as You probably already know the first impression is a very powerful feeling in relations between people, moreover it’s really hard to change it afterwards. What is more, women can read body language (especially men’s body language ) 10 TIMES BETTER than we can theirs.
Always before a woman will talk with You, she will first observe You. She will look at You in the pub, in the park and even when You are coming up to her to start a chat. And in this short time before you even get a chance to speak there will be enough time for her to estimate Your character and she’ll know if she is going to like You or not – and now You can see the power of a first impression. If she decides that You are not nice, she’ll simply tell You that she doesn’t have time or she is waiting for her boyfriend – anyway You won’t have a chance. It is weird I know, but that’s the way it is. Now I will tell You an even stranger thing ! Most of the time, when this happens and she tells You to get lost, it is Your fault! It is Your fault, because it was Your body language that showed her that You are not a nice guy! That’s why I will teach You in a later part of this course how You should behave to give her positive signals. Body language is about 30% of Your ‘overall score’ and without it Your chances to pick up a girl that You want are reduced significantly.
• Chatting skills. Conversational skill is the most important factor in the seduction process. You can look awesome, You can have great body language, but if You can’t talk to her in way which will cause her to have an interest in You, there won’t be sex or any romance with her. If You would only be a great talker, You would be able to pick up some girls, but only by combining the art of conversation with powerful body language skills and taking care about Your overall look will cause You to be a great seducer who can pick up the really hot chicks. You know… slim blonde with nice big breasts, long legs…and a mini skirt :P
We have now covered the basics now, so we’ll move on to the next chapter.
Next Chapter ---> Mental Attitude